1. It asks you to optionally sign up for a bunch of other services like Spokeo
2. It asks for access to your email via Apple's Mail app which I don't use
3. I got a lot of 404s anyway
4. Many sites require manual intervention to work
Nice idea, but it needs a LOT of TLC to make it generally useful. I suspect that having a non-numeric "zip" code and a non-US address might be breaking a lot of the automation.
Mail isn't documented as a requirement, but the first item in the Requirements section is "macOS (uses launchd for scheduling and Messages for iMessage)".
True. But Apple also enshittified the UI and they had an unforgivable data loss issue with Mail back in the Catalina days, which is why I switched to Thunderbird and haven't looked back.
Back in 2011 or so the Yellow Pages still delivered physical phone books to ever address in the state where we were. My city literally sent out an extra off cycle recycling truck the next day to pick them all up. Everyone threw them out.
Well my coworkers and I realized that the opt out form just needed an address. We contemplated pulling all known addresses for the entire country and automating submitting them all over several months to opt everyone out. I don’t think it ever materialized but we had a good chuckle about the emergency meeting the Yellow Pages web devs would have had and at what percentage of opt outs.
Around the same time frame, my brother rented some rooms in his house to people who had the occupation of actually delivering those phone books. (This was in a different country, but apparently the Yellow Pages existed everywhere.)
The delivery-people got overwhelmed and eventually just resorted to putting the stacks and stacks of phone books into piles and burning them. It took a long time until they got caught because nobody really misses a phone book.
> I don’t think it ever materialized but we had a good chuckle about the emergency meeting the Yellow Pages web devs would have had and at what percentage of opt outs.
They would just pretend they didn't receive the opt outs, like half of the direct mailers and spammers out there.
I've gone through the trouble of trying to get Uline to stop sending gigantic paper catalogs to my PO Box two or three times per year. They have a form, they just ignore the requests:
One day many years ago, I saw an item that I did an impulse buy on. It wasn't an ad, but just lame ol' bored surfing discovery. I never even saw the rest of the site the item was bought from. Later I started receiving printed catalogs from the site. It followed me through 3 moves, and I never used USPS forwarding. I assume the site eventually died as the catalogs just stopped showing up
I managed to get off uline’s list I think they have a phone number. If one ever orders from them again the process needs to be repeated. This was a physical address not a PO Box.
Similarly I remember being at Australia Post discussing data privacy for a project and I couldn't help but make the wisecrack remark "don't y'all routinely distribute millions of individual's personal data every year and just leave the information lying about on people's doorstops for anyone to access?"
You can definitely outlaw this.
Under GDPR it’s much harder to lawfully collect and sell personal data large scale.
Not saying it doesnt happen still but it gives you a legal basis to fight against it — noyb.eu / Max Schremscand others do some excellent important work on that front
Creating a Windows service is a bit harder (as Windows actually uses a real API for services rather than just relying on process spawning and scripting around that), but with task scheduler you can schedule tasks to run once a month in all kinds of ways.
Services are executables, but they have dedicated entrypoints/"signals" for interaction with the service manager. That means you can't point a service at a batch file or powershell script, because those applications don't have the symbols to respond to the signalling from Windows.
recaptcha v3 will require the human to have a Google certified android device (i.e. no GrapheneOS or LineageOS etc.) and a dedicated iOS app which leaks device ID and other data.
Google will get to know every user browsing the web and link it to a smartphone. Since they’re rolling out government issue ID verification at the OS level, this change will allow Google to identify a random web visitor to a govt ID.
It’s in the Apple app store App Privacy disclosure [1]
Location (“coarse location”), identifiers (“device id, user id”)
^ both are deemed a necessity for app functionality, with deviceID required for analytics too.
Chances are you have a Google app, or logged into some Google service installed on the same iOS device also. They now have a holistic picture of the user from deviceID, google id, phone number, location, IP, wifi networks etc.
The "device ID" part is probably false and a red herring. What actually matters is that google can correlate which challenges a given device is solving, so if it's solving 10k challenges per day, it can be marked as being suspicious.
No, on both android and ios device id implies some sort of identifier that's reusable across apps. Otherwise a uuid that you generate and write to storage could qualify as a "device id".
So, essentially a super cookie? That is, generated once (at random or arbitrarily) and then included with proof of work? But not a fingerprint or otherwise linked to identity?
But then that would not work against correlating fraud detection as sketched above. A client could simply reset the app every now and then to generate a new UUID.
You can characterize this commercial arrangement as whatever you want, but not meaningfully different than what they had before, where they were getting users to click boxes and charging businesses per "verification".
Its only Google's ReCaptcha that sucks, with its eternal gaslighting.
"Select stairs": okay, does that mean the railing too? And probably some percentage of people clicked rails, so now I have meta it and guess if that percentage is enough to throw off my guess.
"Select motorbike": okay, but you're showing me a bicycle. I'll click "skip". FAIL. TRY AGAIN. Sighs.. okay, I guess the average person is so dim-witted they will misidentify a bicycle for a motorbike.
It’s not just Google. Look at Arkose, which are not only difficult for humans to solve, they’re difficult for humans to even understand (“move the particle to the correct orbit”).
And the "correct" pictures all shows steps, not stairs.
> "Select motorbike"
And the "correct" pictures all show mopeds, not motorbikes.
Christ, don't get me stated on taxis that aren't black, fire hydrants that aren't a yellow H sign (apparently I'm supposed to look for something like a yellow painted R2D2) and WTF is a "crosswalk" (a pedestrian crossing?).
I think my browsing habits may have changed, as I rarely see captchas. However, just the other day, my son was frustrated by one that he said had taken him fifteen or more tries, and he still hadn't succeeded.
Yeah, that is a very common complaint about Google's recaptcha. If they don't like you, they actually just send you through an infinite failure loop, even though you keep solving them correctly.
I always get paranoid about these things ever since the Streisand Effect became a thing, I feel like the outcome is you enter a second list and this second list is maybe less friendly as it turns you into an outlier which brings other kinds of problems
It feels like the system is rigged and we need a better answer
No, the system is rigged in a different way. There is an actual data broker industry that's mostly hidden from view; and then there are hundreds upon hundreds of ephemeral "look up your neighbor" websites that you know about and end up submitting opt outs to, only for half of these websites to disappear and a new crop to show up in a year or two.
The state tracking and manual fallback are the most interesting parts to me. For a tool like this, I’d really want a dry-run/audit mode that shows which fields would be submitted to which broker before anything is sent. The awkward threat model is that the tool reduces exposure, but a broken selector could also leak personal data to the wrong place.
A few of these services ask you to go find your record among their lists first, so you can confirm which record you want removed using the URL of the record. So either it has to guess on that, or simply isn't doing it.
Has anyone had any luck deleting themselves from the data brokers who sell cell data to political texters and/or survey companies? Those are the ones I really want to opt out of
Isn't this just a way to confirm that your email is still active, and few miliseconds later you will be getting a lot of new spam from websites you never knew about?
Good point, could be a solid benchmark. Sites are adversarially built to resist automation and success is verifiable later when records actually disappear, so harder to game than WebArena.
I got tired of spammers having my information, so I built a tool that submits an up-to-date copy of my information to over 500 websites. Surely this will help.
Jokes aside, I unironically suspect the purpose of many opt-out forms is merely to record the up-to-date information.
Agreed. Any time I click an “Unsubscribe” link in an email, that takes me to a site where I have to provide my email or indeed, do anything more than click “confirm,” I leave. I assume it either resets some kind of consent trigger or sells my data to a new third-party vendor. The assumption of bad faith is now baked into my interaction with almost every corporate entity.
Sometimes the people who set up the email service just forget or don't bother to add the receivers email to the URL parameter when you click unsubscribe, so it'll ask for your email again which is always an annoying step.
I refuse to believe that “someone just forgot” to implement a user-friendly feature whose omission coincidentally benefits their company. It is not a coincidence, and it was not done unintentionally. The same way that it is not a coincidence that the “unsubscribe” link is always in six-point font the same color as the rest of the email footer. Code does not happen in a vacuum. Code does not get pushed to production without vetting and approval. As I say, the assumption of bad faith is baked in.
There are plenty of dark patterns in digital marketing, and you're generally right about the thinking.
But there is a (somewhat plausible) defense here: if someone forwards you an email and you hit the unsubscribe link, then it unsubscribes them; not you. Requiring the user to enter their email helps ensure you don't accidentally unsubscribe the wrong person.
That said — the most impactful thing anyone can do to punish dark pattern digital marketing behavior is to report the message as SPAM in your email client. That'll hurt their delivery rates and damage their sending reputation with email providers.
> But there is a (somewhat plausible) defense here: if someone forwards you an email and you hit the unsubscribe link, then it unsubscribes them; not you.
Pre-filling the address in the field is easy and prevents that. But if I get redirected to an empty address field, I immediately close and mark as spam. I refuse to reward that behavior.
Thankfully most let you opt out with a single click - but if not I will put the whole domain in my killfile, so I won’t get any emails from them ever again
I think they’re doing it because of your exact behavior: one-click unsubscribe links are easy to do even if you’re on mobile and aren’t giving the process your full attention. Making you enter your email is a barrier.
They already know your email, I don’t see why getting it again would sell it to a new vendor. Clicking an unsubscribe link already verifies you are a real person.
Very true, the act of unsubscribing itself signifies that the email is still live; more bad faith. As to why not sell it to a new vendor, because that would allow them to check a box that says “we offer a feature that allows users to opt out of data sharing agreement with the partners defined in the TOS and onboarding process.”
I use Optery for about two months a year, seems to do a good enough job for most of the data brokers. There are also discounts or promo codes to lower the price as well.
I tried Optery. It got a good chunk done in two months, then the rest were just pending for a year... until I cancelled. Felt like they were just keeping me on the monthly dole while they didn't do anything.
Why not just comment out the macNotify() calls in watcher.js and then run it periodically? There are also a few calls to send iMessages that you should remove.
I honestly find these kind of useless. I think a service that simply inserts thousands of bogus entries is way more valuable since a search is useless if it returns 100 addresses for where you live.
There are times where I immediately guess it, the recent mitchell post of AI psychosis was something that I recognized (which is now at 2k upvotes)
But there are other times where I am wrong too and I even comment on threads with less upvotes because the topic is so interesting yet my comment just ends up being isolated.
It's really more like a 50/50.
Even the one post of mine which had reached the front page of Hackernews was something that I absolutely knew could reach front page but then there weren't much responses for a few days but then after a few days, I saw that it was re-uploaded (I think that Hn selects a few submissions which are interesting, I forgot how that mechanism worked) and then I reached the front page of Hackernews ;)
Either way, I think people should just make what they feel is interesting but I remember reading some article once which said a few things which this article follows:
1. I built XYZ... gets more frontpage than we built XYZ...
2. having (Open source) in the title increases the chances too
This article has both of them so its definitely interesting to see it on front page, either way its an really interesting project :-D
The mention of states is because (besides the author likely being located in the States) many of the opt out forms are US only and filter on US state. You could probably just use an uncommon state or territory like Guam and try it, it would still submit opt outs for matching records on sites that are international. For example https://www.familytreenow.com/optout is listed in the broker list, and that seems to work for international profiles.
I said it a couple of times already in this thread but the only thing that will stop these “businesses” is stronger data privacy regulation.
Sometimes it feels like US-Americans have lost all faith in their government’s ability to improve their lives -i can understand it but at the same time where will this lead?
I got tired spam calls and text, so I built a script that automates the opt-out process across 500+ data brokers on a monthly schedule.
Where I need help:
The heuristic approach misses a lot. Many of the generic sites have unique flows the four generic strategies don't catch. I'm looking for people who want to:
- Verify which generic sites are actually succeeding vs. silently failing
- Add explicit broker definitions for high-value sites that are currently on the generic path
- Test on non-macOS (launchd scheduling is macOS-only; cron fallback would help Linux/Windows users)
- Handle email verification flows (script submits the form but can't click confirmation links in your inbox)
Repo: https://github.com/stephenlthorn/auto-identity-remove
No personal data in the repo — setup script prompts for your info locally and keeps it gitignored.
Does this current approach succeed for many sites? I see that this repo was clearly vibe coded or at least heavily used AI to write it. That can be fine, it just makes it more difficult to follow how much was done already and how much is left to get this properly working. As for email verification, a stopgap solution could be to just tell me to click confirm on the emails and which senders to look out for. Properly reading the actual inbox on record across providers could be difficult, it requires an actual email client. Also, forgive me if I'm off base on this one, but your comment appears to be AI generated. If so, that violates site guidelines.
> Don't post generated comments or AI-edited comments. HN is for conversation between humans.
I tried this (as a Canadian):
Nice idea, but it needs a LOT of TLC to make it generally useful. I suspect that having a non-numeric "zip" code and a non-US address might be breaking a lot of the automation.> 2. It asks for access to your email via Apple's Mail app which I don't use
Assumption that people use Apple services by default is wild
Mail isn't documented as a requirement, but the first item in the Requirements section is "macOS (uses launchd for scheduling and Messages for iMessage)".
Is Messages to automate responding to broker texts or just for notification?
The mail app is a native Mac app but it can use any email account. It's an SMTP/IMAP/POP client.
True. But Apple also enshittified the UI and they had an unforgivable data loss issue with Mail back in the Catalina days, which is why I switched to Thunderbird and haven't looked back.
They probably built it just for themselves. More the first person in the post title.
Given oop info I can found online, they built it to advertise themselves, I think show hn would have been much more appropriate
Mac in requirements is wild tho
If it was windows or Linux only I feel like no one would bat an eye. Plenty of software is OS dependent. Am I missing something?
I do think they should’ve put that in the title, however. Save a lot of people time
I agree with you for the no one would bat an eye had it been windows or linux
I do find the project cool, just a bit too sensationalized given the title
They probably wouldn't have shared the GitHub repository with hn if this was the case.
There are "show hn" submissions for things that people just want to show off multiple times a week.
This was not tagged as a show hn ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
So you're saying the phrase "vibe-coded" should've been used somewhere in the title? :-)
Back in 2011 or so the Yellow Pages still delivered physical phone books to ever address in the state where we were. My city literally sent out an extra off cycle recycling truck the next day to pick them all up. Everyone threw them out.
Well my coworkers and I realized that the opt out form just needed an address. We contemplated pulling all known addresses for the entire country and automating submitting them all over several months to opt everyone out. I don’t think it ever materialized but we had a good chuckle about the emergency meeting the Yellow Pages web devs would have had and at what percentage of opt outs.
Around the same time frame, my brother rented some rooms in his house to people who had the occupation of actually delivering those phone books. (This was in a different country, but apparently the Yellow Pages existed everywhere.)
The delivery-people got overwhelmed and eventually just resorted to putting the stacks and stacks of phone books into piles and burning them. It took a long time until they got caught because nobody really misses a phone book.
I think dad wanted some extra money one year and he took my brother and I out and delivered 100s of phonebooks in our area.
i think we got a season pass to 6 flags out of it, but i'm not positive
The mailroom of my apartment building in college in 1988 was full of phone books that were unclaimed. I took enough to make a platform for my futon.
As funny as these stories are it makes my environmentalist blood boil. Such ridiculous waste at scale for a product barely anyone actually wants.
I sure do! Calling all local contractors for a quote VS falling for the SEO king.
whitepages vs yellowpages
> I don’t think it ever materialized but we had a good chuckle about the emergency meeting the Yellow Pages web devs would have had and at what percentage of opt outs.
They would just pretend they didn't receive the opt outs, like half of the direct mailers and spammers out there.
I've gone through the trouble of trying to get Uline to stop sending gigantic paper catalogs to my PO Box two or three times per year. They have a form, they just ignore the requests:
https://www.uline.com/CustomerService/ULINE_FAQ_Ans?FAQ_ID=4...
One day many years ago, I saw an item that I did an impulse buy on. It wasn't an ad, but just lame ol' bored surfing discovery. I never even saw the rest of the site the item was bought from. Later I started receiving printed catalogs from the site. It followed me through 3 moves, and I never used USPS forwarding. I assume the site eventually died as the catalogs just stopped showing up
I managed to get off uline’s list I think they have a phone number. If one ever orders from them again the process needs to be repeated. This was a physical address not a PO Box.
Similarly I remember being at Australia Post discussing data privacy for a project and I couldn't help but make the wisecrack remark "don't y'all routinely distribute millions of individual's personal data every year and just leave the information lying about on people's doorstops for anyone to access?"
Nothing they do actually improves society so in a healthy society we would be able to outlaw what they do. But we don't. So we can't.
You can definitely outlaw this. Under GDPR it’s much harder to lawfully collect and sell personal data large scale. Not saying it doesnt happen still but it gives you a legal basis to fight against it — noyb.eu / Max Schremscand others do some excellent important work on that front
The only thing that is tied to MacOS is launchd, seems like that's useful info to add to the docs. I don't know if you can just do a run from the CLI.
Supporting Systemd should be easy. Not sure what windows uses.
Creating a Windows service is a bit harder (as Windows actually uses a real API for services rather than just relying on process spawning and scripting around that), but with task scheduler you can schedule tasks to run once a month in all kinds of ways.
> a real API for services rather than just relying on process spawning and scripting around that
What's the difference? Aren't services always just spawned processes?
On Windows, services use this API: https://learn.microsoft.com/en-us/windows/win32/services/ser...
Services are executables, but they have dedicated entrypoints/"signals" for interaction with the service manager. That means you can't point a service at a batch file or powershell script, because those applications don't have the symbols to respond to the signalling from Windows.
I'm sure there is some perfectly valid reason for that in Windows-land but yet I prefer the launchd/systemd approach.
sc.exe or tasksched
> 4. Solves CAPTCHAs via CapSolver (AI-powered, ~$0.001/solve)
Right, so my suspicion was correct: I'm the only one being inconvenienced by the same old captchas.
It depends on the CAPTCHA, but there's a reason why Apple, Cloudflare, and Google are shifting towards remote attestation for proof-of-humanity.
The reCAPTCHA v3 Enterprise version and MtCaptcha cost a whopping 3x as much ($3 per 1000 solves). Seems like they're the best CAPTCHAs to go for.
recaptcha v3 will require the human to have a Google certified android device (i.e. no GrapheneOS or LineageOS etc.) and a dedicated iOS app which leaks device ID and other data.
Google will get to know every user browsing the web and link it to a smartphone. Since they’re rolling out government issue ID verification at the OS level, this change will allow Google to identify a random web visitor to a govt ID.
https://support.google.com/recaptcha/answer/16609652?hl=en
More info on how an iOS app can leak device ID? I thought Apple did away with access to device IDs and only provides a per-developer ID.
It’s in the Apple app store App Privacy disclosure [1]
Location (“coarse location”), identifiers (“device id, user id”)
^ both are deemed a necessity for app functionality, with deviceID required for analytics too.
Chances are you have a Google app, or logged into some Google service installed on the same iOS device also. They now have a holistic picture of the user from deviceID, google id, phone number, location, IP, wifi networks etc.
[1] https://apps.apple.com/us/app/recaptcha/id6746882749
The "device ID" part is probably false and a red herring. What actually matters is that google can correlate which challenges a given device is solving, so if it's solving 10k challenges per day, it can be marked as being suspicious.
Sounds pretty much like they're identify the device, then. Or is "device id" Apple lingo for a specific tech?
No, on both android and ios device id implies some sort of identifier that's reusable across apps. Otherwise a uuid that you generate and write to storage could qualify as a "device id".
So, essentially a super cookie? That is, generated once (at random or arbitrarily) and then included with proof of work? But not a fingerprint or otherwise linked to identity?
But then that would not work against correlating fraud detection as sketched above. A client could simply reset the app every now and then to generate a new UUID.
So at 3x times the monetary rate, Google is literally selling it's customers?!
>Google is literally selling it's customers?!
You can characterize this commercial arrangement as whatever you want, but not meaningfully different than what they had before, where they were getting users to click boxes and charging businesses per "verification".
Captchas are getting so annoying and puzzling they will soon prove you're unlikely to be human if you pass them.
Its only Google's ReCaptcha that sucks, with its eternal gaslighting.
"Select stairs": okay, does that mean the railing too? And probably some percentage of people clicked rails, so now I have meta it and guess if that percentage is enough to throw off my guess.
"Select motorbike": okay, but you're showing me a bicycle. I'll click "skip". FAIL. TRY AGAIN. Sighs.. okay, I guess the average person is so dim-witted they will misidentify a bicycle for a motorbike.
It’s not just Google. Look at Arkose, which are not only difficult for humans to solve, they’re difficult for humans to even understand (“move the particle to the correct orbit”).
> "Select stairs"
And the "correct" pictures all shows steps, not stairs.
> "Select motorbike"
And the "correct" pictures all show mopeds, not motorbikes.
Christ, don't get me stated on taxis that aren't black, fire hydrants that aren't a yellow H sign (apparently I'm supposed to look for something like a yellow painted R2D2) and WTF is a "crosswalk" (a pedestrian crossing?).
>with its eternal gaslighting.
That's not gaslighting.
>And probably some percentage of people clicked rails, so now I have meta it and guess if that percentage is enough to throw off my guess.
No, there are multiple accepted answers.
I think my browsing habits may have changed, as I rarely see captchas. However, just the other day, my son was frustrated by one that he said had taken him fifteen or more tries, and he still hadn't succeeded.
Yeah, that is a very common complaint about Google's recaptcha. If they don't like you, they actually just send you through an infinite failure loop, even though you keep solving them correctly.
Roblox, by far, has the strangest and most difficult to solve.
Some chess sites make you solve a checkmate problem for a captcha. Are those automated now, or is that a good method?
Isn’t chess easy now for computers? How can that be a good method?
Makes it tempting to buy paid captcha solving just to enjoy life more
Looks like they have a browser extension! https://www.capsolver.com/products/browser-extension
I'm wondering if this isn't a nice automated way to send your information to 500 data brokers.
I had this exact thought
100%
I haven’t checked but wonder what info you need to provide in step 3 (Fills and submits the opt-out form automatically)
I assume it’s gonna be more than just the name and address?
A much better way to solve this would be to fight for GDPR-like legislation in the US.
I always get paranoid about these things ever since the Streisand Effect became a thing, I feel like the outcome is you enter a second list and this second list is maybe less friendly as it turns you into an outlier which brings other kinds of problems
It feels like the system is rigged and we need a better answer
No, the system is rigged in a different way. There is an actual data broker industry that's mostly hidden from view; and then there are hundreds upon hundreds of ephemeral "look up your neighbor" websites that you know about and end up submitting opt outs to, only for half of these websites to disappear and a new crop to show up in a year or two.
Weird how with these kinds of discussions new accounts always show up with a wealth of information. Very astroturfed topic readers beware
Yes, I'm clearly on the payroll of... um... big optout?
Yesterday, the comment section on Flock camera vandalism was wild for this reason.
what do you mean? also your account is 6 months old
can you share your sources? I'm curious about this
At least in California, the DROP form is scheduled to come online this fall.
As someone working in the industry: August 1 is hanging out like the Sword of Damocles for the ~500 registered data brokers in California.
For consumers, it's already available though! You can join 275K of your neighbors and sign up.
The state tracking and manual fallback are the most interesting parts to me. For a tool like this, I’d really want a dry-run/audit mode that shows which fields would be submitted to which broker before anything is sent. The awkward threat model is that the tool reduces exposure, but a broken selector could also leak personal data to the wrong place.
Having done data broker opt-outs manually using the Big Ass Data Broker Opt Out List (https://github.com/yaelwrites/Big-Ass-Data-Broker-Opt-Out-Li...), very little of the process can be automated. Intentionally.
A few of these services ask you to go find your record among their lists first, so you can confirm which record you want removed using the URL of the record. So either it has to guess on that, or simply isn't doing it.
Interesting. Have you been using it a while and is it working to reduce spam?
I feel like this is just a way to mark yourself as "active". Do we honestly think evey one of those shady companies sticks to the rules?
Has anyone had any luck deleting themselves from the data brokers who sell cell data to political texters and/or survey companies? Those are the ones I really want to opt out of
Sweet, I've been wondering why it doesn't doesn't exist as an open source solution.
> Name, city, state, ZIP, email, phone
Does this work for anyone outside the US as well? e.g. Will it work for an Australian?
Isn't this just a way to confirm that your email is still active, and few miliseconds later you will be getting a lot of new spam from websites you never knew about?
Thanks for the lively feedback and comments - this is very much a beta/first attempt.
I hate spam = the only reason I built it. No other intention behind it.
I posted here to get support on making it better so others can use it.
I'll take some of these comments and start iterating on them.
Feel free to submit anything directly to the repo or fork and make it better for your own set up.
Could this task be a nice benchmark for computer use models?
Would interesting to see the success rate for Claude Cowork or Codex’s equivalent feature.
Good point, could be a solid benchmark. Sites are adversarially built to resist automation and success is verifiable later when records actually disappear, so harder to game than WebArena.
I got tired of spammers having my information, so I built a tool that submits an up-to-date copy of my information to over 500 websites. Surely this will help.
Jokes aside, I unironically suspect the purpose of many opt-out forms is merely to record the up-to-date information.
Agreed. Any time I click an “Unsubscribe” link in an email, that takes me to a site where I have to provide my email or indeed, do anything more than click “confirm,” I leave. I assume it either resets some kind of consent trigger or sells my data to a new third-party vendor. The assumption of bad faith is now baked into my interaction with almost every corporate entity.
Sometimes the people who set up the email service just forget or don't bother to add the receivers email to the URL parameter when you click unsubscribe, so it'll ask for your email again which is always an annoying step.
I refuse to believe that “someone just forgot” to implement a user-friendly feature whose omission coincidentally benefits their company. It is not a coincidence, and it was not done unintentionally. The same way that it is not a coincidence that the “unsubscribe” link is always in six-point font the same color as the rest of the email footer. Code does not happen in a vacuum. Code does not get pushed to production without vetting and approval. As I say, the assumption of bad faith is baked in.
That’s their mistake, and any other email I receive from them will be flagged as spam and sent to the junk folder.
I’m not in the business of fixing their mistakes for free.
I will click the unsubscribe link and that’s it.
Could be a way of saving computation, this way the email content is the exact same for everyone receiving it
It's a dark pattern which adds friction to the process, in order to reduce the number of unsubscribes.
There are plenty of dark patterns in digital marketing, and you're generally right about the thinking.
But there is a (somewhat plausible) defense here: if someone forwards you an email and you hit the unsubscribe link, then it unsubscribes them; not you. Requiring the user to enter their email helps ensure you don't accidentally unsubscribe the wrong person.
That said — the most impactful thing anyone can do to punish dark pattern digital marketing behavior is to report the message as SPAM in your email client. That'll hurt their delivery rates and damage their sending reputation with email providers.
> But there is a (somewhat plausible) defense here: if someone forwards you an email and you hit the unsubscribe link, then it unsubscribes them; not you.
Pre-filling the address in the field is easy and prevents that. But if I get redirected to an empty address field, I immediately close and mark as spam. I refuse to reward that behavior.
Thankfully most let you opt out with a single click - but if not I will put the whole domain in my killfile, so I won’t get any emails from them ever again
I think they’re doing it because of your exact behavior: one-click unsubscribe links are easy to do even if you’re on mobile and aren’t giving the process your full attention. Making you enter your email is a barrier.
They already know your email, I don’t see why getting it again would sell it to a new vendor. Clicking an unsubscribe link already verifies you are a real person.
Very true, the act of unsubscribing itself signifies that the email is still live; more bad faith. As to why not sell it to a new vendor, because that would allow them to check a box that says “we offer a feature that allows users to opt out of data sharing agreement with the partners defined in the TOS and onboarding process.”
How many of the forms have captchas etc?
How many require you to make an account or confirm your email address/phone?
Looks like it uses AI to solve the captchas, but yeah some do require making an account in my experience.
FYI it could be that people are the "AI."
https://surejob.in/captcha-entry-work.html
I use Optery for about two months a year, seems to do a good enough job for most of the data brokers. There are also discounts or promo codes to lower the price as well.
https://www.optery.com/
HN Launch: https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=30605010
Promo codes: https://www.optery.com/optery-promo-codes/
I tried Optery. It got a good chunk done in two months, then the rest were just pending for a year... until I cancelled. Felt like they were just keeping me on the monthly dole while they didn't do anything.
Is this relevant for the UK? (Genuine question, trying to understand if I should run this)
Any chance of this not needing to run on a Mac? I would try it out but want to run it in a Docker container.
Why not just comment out the macNotify() calls in watcher.js and then run it periodically? There are also a few calls to send iMessages that you should remove.
Why does one need to be removed from these sites on a monthly schedule?
Because the opt out is a useless fig leaf they can point to in the unlikely event that public outcry forces regulators to do something.
I honestly find these kind of useless. I think a service that simply inserts thousands of bogus entries is way more valuable since a search is useless if it returns 100 addresses for where you live.
Can I sue these companies if they don't remove me?
Do they even care if I'm not from their countries of origin?
This always felt like theater to me. They say "we deleted it, trust me bro" and we're supposed to believe it?
you ever look on a title and just immediately know that its going on the frontpage + staying there
There are times where I immediately guess it, the recent mitchell post of AI psychosis was something that I recognized (which is now at 2k upvotes)
But there are other times where I am wrong too and I even comment on threads with less upvotes because the topic is so interesting yet my comment just ends up being isolated.
It's really more like a 50/50.
Even the one post of mine which had reached the front page of Hackernews was something that I absolutely knew could reach front page but then there weren't much responses for a few days but then after a few days, I saw that it was re-uploaded (I think that Hn selects a few submissions which are interesting, I forgot how that mechanism worked) and then I reached the front page of Hackernews ;)
Either way, I think people should just make what they feel is interesting but I remember reading some article once which said a few things which this article follows:
1. I built XYZ... gets more frontpage than we built XYZ...
2. having (Open source) in the title increases the chances too
This article has both of them so its definitely interesting to see it on front page, either way its an really interesting project :-D
cool idea, happy to try it out
> Searches each data broker site for your name + state
Is this US only or would it also work for international profiles (and if so what would be the "state" equivalent)?
The mention of states is because (besides the author likely being located in the States) many of the opt out forms are US only and filter on US state. You could probably just use an uncommon state or territory like Guam and try it, it would still submit opt outs for matching records on sites that are international. For example https://www.familytreenow.com/optout is listed in the broker list, and that seems to work for international profiles.
Wow, you will be giving away a shitload of PIID when using this tool, the exact opposite of what it's supposed to do.
I said it a couple of times already in this thread but the only thing that will stop these “businesses” is stronger data privacy regulation.
Sometimes it feels like US-Americans have lost all faith in their government’s ability to improve their lives -i can understand it but at the same time where will this lead?
Now this is a good use of AI
I got tired spam calls and text, so I built a script that automates the opt-out process across 500+ data brokers on a monthly schedule.
Where I need help: The heuristic approach misses a lot. Many of the generic sites have unique flows the four generic strategies don't catch. I'm looking for people who want to:
- Verify which generic sites are actually succeeding vs. silently failing - Add explicit broker definitions for high-value sites that are currently on the generic path - Test on non-macOS (launchd scheduling is macOS-only; cron fallback would help Linux/Windows users) - Handle email verification flows (script submits the form but can't click confirmation links in your inbox) Repo: https://github.com/stephenlthorn/auto-identity-remove No personal data in the repo — setup script prompts for your info locally and keeps it gitignored.
Does this current approach succeed for many sites? I see that this repo was clearly vibe coded or at least heavily used AI to write it. That can be fine, it just makes it more difficult to follow how much was done already and how much is left to get this properly working. As for email verification, a stopgap solution could be to just tell me to click confirm on the emails and which senders to look out for. Properly reading the actual inbox on record across providers could be difficult, it requires an actual email client. Also, forgive me if I'm off base on this one, but your comment appears to be AI generated. If so, that violates site guidelines.
> Don't post generated comments or AI-edited comments. HN is for conversation between humans.
https://news.ycombinator.com/newsguidelines.html#generated
Nice ! Is it a command line tool ? What info does it need to operate ?
Its literally in the README front and center.
Requirements
macOS (uses launchd for scheduling and Messages for iMessage)
Node.js 18+
Playwright browsers installed
Did you read my questions ?